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YummyMummyClub.ca polled hundreds of busy, multi-tasking moms and dads across the country about their sex lives after kids leaving nary a stone, or private moment, unturned. The numbers below give the facts but it's this story behind the numbers that will leave you breathless.
Q1: How often do you have sex with your partner? | Women | Men |
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Daily | 5.8% | 8.3% |
Weekly | 45.9% | 41.7% |
Monthly | 23.5% | 27.8% |
ummmm...not so much | 24.9% | 22.2% |
Q2: Are your sexual relations planned or scheduled in advance? | Women | Men |
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Yes, planned | 17% | 21.7% |
No, scheduled in advance | 83% | 78.3% |
Q3: Who initiates the sex? | Women | Men |
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Me | 25.8% | 72.6% |
My partner | 74.2% | 27.4% |
Q4: What time of day do you most often have sex? | Women | Men |
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Morning | 7.4% | 7.5% |
Daytime | 5.8% | 10.4% |
Night | 79.2% | 77.4% |
Middle of the night | 7.7% | 4.7% |
Q5: Do you use toys? | Women | Men |
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Yes | 32.6% | 30.8% |
No | 67.4% | 69.2% |
Q6: Where do you have sex most often? | Women | Men |
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Bedroom | 94.4% | 96.1% |
Living Room/Den | 5.6% | 3.9% |
Q7: Are the lights on or off? | Women | Men |
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On | 30.0% | 30.8% |
Off | 70.0% | 69.2% |
Q8: Do you lock the door? | Women | Men |
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Yes | 23.6% | 31.1% |
No | 76.4% | 68.9% |
Q9: Do you orgasm? | Women | Men |
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Yes | 74.1% | 99.1% |
No | 25.9% | 0.9% |
Q10: Does it matter to you whether you orgasm during sex? | Women | Men |
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Yes | 46.7% | 65.4% |
No | 53.3% | 34.6% |
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Q11: On average, how long does sex last? | Women | Men |
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A minute...who are we kidding? | 2.2% | 2.8% |
5-10 minutes | 25.6% | 24.5% |
10-20 minutes | 40.7% | 41.5% |
20-30 minutes | 22,7% | 21.7% |
30-60 minutes | 8.6% | 7.5% |
over 60 minutes | 0.1% | 1.9% |
Q12: Did you have sex with your partner when she was pregnant? | Women | Men |
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Yes | 87.1% | 86.8% |
No | 12.9% | 13.2% |
Q13: Was pregnant sex enjoyable? | Women | Men |
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Yes | 69.2% | 87.1% |
No | 30.8% | 12.9% |
Q14: How long did you wait to have sex again after your partner gave birth? | Women | Men |
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A month | 14.8% | 20.0% |
6 weeks | 30.8% | 21.0% |
2 months | 24.3% | 22.9% |
3 months | 11.0% | 16.2% |
more than 3 months | 16.3% | 19.0% |
uh yah, still haven't! | 2.8% | 1.0% |
Q15: Do you have more or less sex since having children? | Women | Men |
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More | 9.0% | 8.7% |
Less | 74.5% | 72.1% |
The same amount as before kids | 16.4% | 19.2% |
Q20: Is sex hotter post-children? | Women | Men |
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Yes | 34.0% | 37.9% |
No | 66.0% | 62.1% |
Q21: Do you need to fantasize, watch or read something sexy to get in the mood? | Women | Men |
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Yes | 33.0% | 17.4% |
No | 67.0% | 82.6% |
Q22: Would you have more sex if you had more time to? | Women | Men |
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Yes | 78.1% | 90.2% |
No | 21.9% | 9.8% |
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