I might not be "the" person to speak of relationships. Fact is, my marriage didn't work. I'm not bitter or jaded.
Well, yes I am.
However, I let go of my ideal long ago and allowed myself to build my family's life around a new set of standards based on how things really were. Over time - and it took a few good years I'll tell ya - over time a new awareness came to me. I'm back to being me, the cheesy, geeky, yet undeniably talented me. What a relief.
My girls are very happy with their lives and I'm starting to consider other possibilities - for myself. I have even recently been a twitter groupie. Blue's Traveler kidded with me during their last tour a few times. Harmless fun - soooo fun. Whatever; I'm too focused on my kids and my career (God and distance Ed too) to have time or energy for anything else.
You might be wondering why I am telling you this bit of personal information under the theme of the official yearly love fest. Well, I just wanted to make it known that after all the disillusionment, I still believe in Love. Love with respect and gratitude and mutuality. I may just go looking for it again someday, when I'm ready.
If you have that love, may your cup remain full - cheers! Happy Valentine's Day everyone!
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