I didn’t know. Nobody knows what it's like to be a parent until the kid arrives.
A baby cannot take the place of a mother in your life.
I remember feeling like I wasn’t entitled to that deep of a loss, because I had only been eight or so weeks pregnant.
I couldn’t even utter the words to my husband for the first little while.
We forget that being affected is okay. 
What happens when the glow is gone?
Children may experience grief for a multitude of different reasons and situations. It’s important for parents and caregivers to offer comforting rituals.