Keeping 'Em Out of Trouble

Sep
21
2012

Why Moms Need to Judge Less and Empathize More

No one wants to be the mom with 'that kid'

momstown Edmonton South owners Kristin and Janine provide a great perspective on why we all need to strive to be more empathetic parents and friends. It's easy to judge, and yep, we all do it. But when you're on the receiving end, things look a little different. Read what they have to say after years of watching moms and kids interact.

I had to write this post after a conversation recently with another mom, who said she rarely came out to events because she doesn't want to be the mom with "that kid." I understood what she meant and I do know "that kid."  

"That kid" pushes, cries, takes toys, hits, throws tantrums, pulls hair, screams, runs away, and gets into everything. I'd be hard pressed to find one kid that does all of these things at a single event.  But I've seen every momstown kid display at least one of these behaviors (including my own) at one time or another.  

Guess what? We all have "that kid." No one has a perfect child and not one of us claims to be a perfect parent.

Moms. If your kid is driving you nuts—get him out of the house. Whether she misbehaves at a momstown event or at home, at least you get some sanity-saving conversation and a little bit of a break. I know it can be embarrassing to have "that kid." But at least you aren't at the grocery store getting glares from people who don't understand. You'll be surrounded by other moms that have "that kid" too and no one is judging you, your child or how you deal with it. momstown is about more than just entertaining your kids. We want to support you. We want you to connect with your community. We want you to know you are not alone. The best way to get the most out of momstown is to just jump in—even on the cranky days ; ) 

Have you ever felt like you had 'that kid'?