You don’t have to be Jenna Jameson to know that guys like receiving head.
Going down on a guy may not be every gal’s cup of tea, whereas others may revel in it. But when one does choose to go downtown, it takes skill to ensure the act is pleasurable for both parties. Find out how you can properly give your man a BJ he won’t soon forget.
Talk it out. It’s very important to know what he likes and what you like; are you a swallower or would you prefer he let you know when he’s about to come? Does he like a lot of saliva? Get some of these subjects out of the way before you get down to it; this will keep you both happy. Use a condom, if needed. If you’re going down on a new dude and don’t know where he’s been, it’s best to use a condom. STIs like herpes and gonorrhoea are spread not only through intercourse, but oral sex, too. Use a flavoured condom if you hate the taste of latex, and be sure it’s not lubricated, as spermicide may numb your mouth. Use your tongue. Blow jobs don’t just begin once you’ve enveloped your man with your mouth. Use your tongue to lick and moisten his member from head to base, tickling and teasing him. Be sure to run your tongue across the vein on the underside of his penis, which is a very sensitive area. Go easy on the teeth. Sure, you can lightly use your teeth to nibble and tease. When you get down to it, though, gently cover your teeth with your lips to ensure he’s not screaming for the wrong reasons. Be as hands-on as possible. Don’t just hang your hands limply at your sides; keep them busy! While you suck, slide your hand up and down the shaft as if you were giving him a hand job. Grip his butt cheeks, his hips, and massage his testicles. You can also give yourself some love while you’re at it which is sure to drive him wild. Don’t forget the boys. His testicles are part of the whole package, so be sure to gently lick, suck, as well as massage them with your free hand. Pay close attention to the perineum, which is that patch of skin between his butt and scrotum; gently stroke it with your finger, which will bring him to new heights. Look him in the eyes. To give you both an added thrill, be sure to look up into your guy’s eyes every once in a while. He’ll enjoy watching, and you’ll love seeing the pleasure you’re providing him with.
Hum. Humming during fellatio won’t only convey how much you’re enjoying yourself, but he’ll also feel the vibrations. No need for deep throat. Contrary to popular belief, great oral sex does not require you take him in deeper and deeper. Activating your gag reflex is so not sexy, so just go as far as you can.
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