It may come as a surprise the day you wake up and realize all of your friends are getting married and having babies. The birth of a child is a very special time, and it’s a wonderful opportunity to show your friends support as they begin this new adventure. There are many thoughtful and helpful ways to do that. Here are some simple ideas to get you started.
Make Homemade Baby Gifts:
If you’re creative and crafty, shower your friend in homemade baby gifts made with the most special ingredient—love. There are plenty of baby items that are fairly easy to make (like blankets) and some that may pose more of a challenge. Here’s a short list of a few ideas that may inspire you to break out the sewing machine, knitting needles, or glitter glue, and make something truly thoughtful and unique.
Bring Casseroles:
One of the most helpful gifts that you can give a new mother is the gift of food. Even though food is essential to survival, it is one of the potential gifts most often overlooked when big milestone events take place. Make life easier for the new mommy with a stash of casseroles (or any other family-friendly meal that is easily frozen) to last her for at least a few days. Not having to worry about making food will take a huge load off of new parents as they’re adjusting to their new life.
Offer to Babysit:
The new parents might be inseparable from their infant, but it never hurts to offer to give them some time to themselves. Even time to nap could be invaluable. So check in, and offer your time when you can. They will be forever grateful, and you can practice some baby wooing techniques that might be useful for you in the future. Learning to change a diaper now will likely make things easier for you later, and at the very least, will build your character.
Send Reminders of Support:
Let the new parents know that you care and that you’re excited for them by sending flowers, cards, or more eco-friendly eCards. A personalized greeting serves as a reminder that you are thinking about them a few weeks after the baby is born—not just when the big day comes—can help them feel like they are loved and supported.
As you prepare to welcome your friend’s little one, remember that it’s the little things that count, and that even the smallest of gestures can make a big difference.
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