Aug
03
2013

Instead Of, "Just A Minute!"

A child's frustration with his or her parent can continually escalate when the parent says, "Just a minute!" I love using a when/then in this case.

Example> Child, "Mooommmm, I can't do this puzzle!"
Mom, "When I am done drying these dishes, then I can help you with the puzzle." (And often the extra time helps children problem-solve their way out of their predicament.)

Category: 

Andrea Loewen Nair is a former teacher & psychotherapist and founder of Infinity School in London, Ontario Canada. She specializes in the connection between parents and their children and also teacher-coaching. She has been our most-read writer at YMC for 2013, 2014 and 2015! Andrea's parenting and teaching help can be found here and on her social media.

www.IFeelLikeABear.com