What Men Are Like In Bed

If the man in your bed has sexual issues, what should you do? Should you kick him to the curb and look for somebody else? Should you ignore the problems and hope things get better on their own? Or should you try to help him work things out?

These are some of the questions posed in the new book "Men In Bed: Everything a Woman Needs to Know About the Good, the Bad, and the Kinky" by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D., author of "How To Make Love All Night" and "The Good Girl's Guide To Bad Girl Sex".

You are a lucky woman! You have so many more sexual choices than women of previous generations had. You have unprecedented freedom to embrace and enjoy your sexuality. If you are as lucky as the author has been, you will find yourself in bed with men who are fantastic at pleasing you. But if you sleep with more than a few men, you may find yourself faced with someone who finishes too soon. You will probably meet a man who can't get it up. You may even meet a man who can't get it down!

Chapters in "Men In Bed" address issues such as He Never Seems to Ejaculate!, He's Not Interested in Sex!, and Is There Such a Thing as a Sex Addict? Could He Be One of Them? The book also offers helpful guidelines on how a man ages and the real deal on how alcohol and medications affect male sexual performance. There has been a huge recent increase in the kink factor in men who have fetishes or who are cross-dressers, for example, and Men In Bed tells you what to do if you are faced with these challenges. Men In Bed is written in a light-hearted vein and packed with anecdotes and advice on sexual positions, hands-on techniques, and sexual communication.

Although Men In Bed is a self-help book, it is not purely problem focused. One of the main points is how to look for a man whos good in bed for you, and how to turn the guy you have into not just a good but a great lover.

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