The Warmth Of His Hand

The Passing Of Time

The Warmth Of His Hand

I feel his palm warm against my skin, a slight movement of his fingers as his hand finally settles.  Tired, I only want to sleep, impatient and silently praying for him to eat quickly so I can go back to bed. The memory is now barely there, the act of his hand grabbing onto my arm as I feed him lost, unappreciated in its simplicity. 
It pains me to look back at the moments I let go by without a second glance not understanding how the passing of time is a mirage with seemingly no end in sight.
Seven years have passed since that night and as we walk through the mall looking for back to school clothes he places his hand in mine. I slow my pace, savor the warmth of his skin and concentrate on how he squeezes my fingers each time he speaks.  His skin is still baby soft, the size all little boy. Too soon his hand is pulling away to race off with his brother.  I want nothing more than to grab on and never let it go, knowing that someday this tiny hand will be larger than mine, the times for me to hold it growing fewer and farther between. 
Today there is no illusion, only the warmth left by his hand.


The Wettest Fun You'll Have All Summer: Wild Water Kingdom

Wet, Wild Fun For The Family

The Wettest Fun You'll Have All Summer: Wild Water Kingdom

It's sometimes hard finding an activity the whole family can enjoy, especially when there is a big age difference between the kids. While I had never been to Wild Water Kingdom before, my husband used to hang out there as a teenager which meant not only would we have fun as a family, he had the added bonus that he could share all of his "when I was a kid" stories. 

We took my two boys and my niece, the ages ranging between: 13 and 7, yet each of them had a fantastic time because there's something for every age at Wild Water Kingdom.

For older kids there are exciting slides like the Midnight Express, Devil's Drop, The Cliff (I almost lost my bathing suit bottoms on that one) and Corkscrew, while younger kids can enjoy the Dolphin Bay Water Playground, the Children's Adventure Playground and The Big Tipper water bucket. Feeling a bit water logged? Play mini-golf or go rock wall climbing.

Kids are unpredictable so it shouldn't have surprised me that my boys were at first a bit resistant to sliding down the slides. Thankfully my niece is very convincing and once she got them down their first slide, there was no stopping any of them.  But by far, the best part for the kids was the wave pool. Actually, all of us could have spent the entire day coasting the waves in that pool. However, for me, the Lazy River came a close second.  There is something therapeutic about floating around on an inner tube that allows you to release your inner stress and simply relax while the sun beams down on your face. I'm currently looking into having a Lazy River installed around our neighbourhood.  Work life would be so much better if I could participate in conference calls while floating on an inner tube.

I can honestly say, aside from our vacation where I was completely unplugged, it was the best time we had all summer. I know this because as we were walking out of the park at the end of the day, my older son turned to me and said "I wish there was a button we could press so we could do this whole day over again."

Me too, little too....

Ready To Start The Day


Smiles On The Slide



Two Thumbs Up


ou Know It's A Good Day When (he's sleeping for real) 


p.s.  If your kids aren't too exhausted by the end of the day, Wild Water Kingdom even has a drive-in. 

p.p.s.  Wild Water Kingdom let us hang at their park for the day for free but, we have gone back again and paid our own way.  

Looking for other fun things to do in Ontario?  Check out Dundurn Castle and The Streetcar Museum


Dundurn Castle

Dungeons and Dragons

Dundurn Castle

I found this little gem thanks to @optimom.  After tweeting out I was in desperate need for something to do with the boys she recommended Dundurn Castle.  Located in Hamilton, the castle is the restored home of Sir Allan Napier MacNab, who was apparently really rich, because the house is huge. Built in 1835 the house has something like 73 rooms. 

The tour of the house is about an hour and is done by a tour guide wearing a costume from that era.  Not only did the kids love it, they actually learned stuff.  Plus we got to eat freshly baked bread.  With butter.  I would have gone just for that.

After we toured the castle, we walked across the lawn to the Hamilton Military Museum where the boys dressed up in military uniforms, played accordians and learned how to tie knots. Which is way better than the fighting they were doing at home.

All in all it was a great day.  Thanks Optimom!