Are you planning on setting a New Year's resolution this year? I am, but I haven't figured out what my resolution is yet—I want to make sure that it's attainable and realistic, unlike certain resolutions that I've set in the past.
The "I will start exercising every day for one hour and eat five servings of veggies a day" when you've never set foot in a gym before and you choke down one serving of veggies a day (if you're lucky) kind of resolution? This kind of resolution sounds really amazing in your head when you're setting it, but quickly becomes a disappointing and defeating failure a week into the New Year. Don't put yourself through this again this year. Set a realistic resolution that you can achieve without giving up foods that you love and killing yourself at the gym.
10 Questions You Need to Ask Yourself Before the New Year
Ask yourself three important questions before you set a goal or resolution for the New Year:
Why are you choosing to set this goal? How will this make your life better or easier? What will you gain when you reach this goal? If you don’t have a strong motivating factor when it comes to your goal, you won’t be successful in achieving it. For example, if you set a goal of eating breakfast everyday from Monday to Friday, that’s awesome! But why? Maybe because you heard from a friend that it was a good idea or you think it may be healthy to do so? Hmm, not good enough! You may go one or two days having breakfast and then give up because you didn’t have a strong enough motivator. On the other hand, if your motivator is that eating breakfast will help to significantly boost your metabolism, give you more energy and help you to lose that 5 pounds that you’ve been wanting to lose forever, then YES! That’s a strong motivator that will keep you on track.
When are you going to start working towards this goal? What days of the week are you going to work on this goal? What time? What is the specific time frame? A month? A year? I know this sounds a little “structured”, but it’s not. In fact, these specific timing details are key when setting realistic goals. If you set a goal of walking more for exercise, that’s awesome. But simply saying that you’re going to “walk more” isn’t going to cut it. Instead, decide when you will start walking (i.e., Wednesday January 2nd), what days of the week (i.e. Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays), and what time (i.e., after your toddler’s nap time at 3pm). Also, set a timeline (i.e., I will do this from January 2nd to March 9th, 2012, and at that point, re-evaluate my goal). These specific details will help to keep you motivated and on track, especially if you take it a step further and actually schedule it into your daytimer or calendar.
Walk Your Way Slim With This Program
Ok, so you’ve set a New Years Resolution and you’re really excited about it. But you realize that there are a few barriers to actually achieving it. Perhaps your barrier is time, or lack thereof. Or perhaps it’s the unpredictable weather (how can you go for a walk if it’s –30 out?). It’s important to think about all of the possible barriers that may keep you from achieving your goal and then breaking them down. You will definitely need support from your partner or spouse, maybe a bit of childcare, and even a buddy to keep you accountable. Whatever your potential barriers are, ask yourself if they are too big to overcome. If they are, tweak your resolution so that there are no longer potential barriers. If your barriers are small enough that you can overcome them, great! Go for it!
Here are some examples of realistic resolutions that you may want to try out:
Sign up for a yoga class once a week: Yoga is safe, builds strength and flexibility and helps to de-stress and relax.
Start adding a piece of fruit to your breakfast: If you're used to having a simple bowl of cereal or piece of toast with peanut butter, balance your breakfast out with some fruit to add fibre, vitamins and minerals and antioxidants.
Start planning out your suppers once a week: Meal planning will save you time, money and stress. You'll know what groceries you need for the week and won't be tempted to order in every night.
Sign up for a 5km run or walk: If you've always wanted to try running, sign yourself up for a run or walk in the Spring. This way, you have made yourself accountable to your goal. You haven't committed to a marathon yet, but you've signed yourself up for a realistic challenge.
Cut back the amount of alcohol that you drink: If you've gotten into the habit of drinking a little more than you'd like, cut back just a little bit. For example, if you have 2-3 glasses of wine a night, cut back to 1 and use a smaller glass.
Keep tempting junk foods out of the house: If you tend to mindlessly snack on empty-calorie, unhealthy foods at home on a daily basis, make a point of not buying them. Out of sight, out of mind. If you have a craving for something sweet or salty, make a special trip to purchase one serving of it. You may just decide that you don't want it badly enough.
Happy New Year and good luck!!
Have a healthy breakfast everyday within an hour of waking up. Breakfast will give you energy for the day ahead and also help to prevent overeating later in the day.
Only indulge in treats that are worth it. There's no point in eating for the sake of eating. Pick one or two treats that you really love.
Let your natural physical hunger and fullness cues be your portion control guide. Have something to eat when you start to feel hungry and stop when you're comfortably full. You can always have more later.
Include protein in each meal and snack. Protein helps to make you feel fuller longer, helping with appetite control, and helps to stabilize your blood sugar levels.
Don't forget to be active. Set aside 30-60 minutes a day to move your body- whether it's skating with the family or taking a walk after breakfast, make sure to get some exercise in over the holidays.
Always include some veggies in your lunch and supper meals. Veggies are filling, nutritious and low in calories, therefore, will help to prevent you from overeating on more calorie-rich foods.
You deserve to enjoy the holiday foods that you love guilt-free. Don't stress about gaining weight during the holidays. If you follow the tips above, you can enjoy your favourite holiday treats without packing on extra pounds. The holiday season lasts about 2 weeks. There are 52 weeks in a year. This is only 3.8% of the year. Enjoy!
Following the the unthinkable, horrific tragedy in Newtown Connecticut on Friday that stole the precious, innocent lives of 20 sweet, beautiful children, I cannot begin to even fathom what you, the parents of those babies, must be going through. The excruciating sadness that that you must feel every moment of every day in the wake of losing your baby; your life.
I have a toddler—he's 2. I haven't felt what it feels like to send him off to school alone or send him on a school bus. I haven't yet felt what it feels like to wait outside school doors eager to hear about his day. And I haven't yet had to worry about him being bullied during lunch hour or whether or not he eats the lunch that I pack for him. And I haven't had to wonder whether or not he is safe and looked after day after day at school.
What I have felt though is a love so powerful that words can not describe it. I've felt unbearable fear when I've had to rush him to the hospital. I've felt that sudden panic when he disappears for a moment in the shopping mall. I've felt what it feels like to be a parent. And the feelings are so excruciatingly powerful, they hurt.
As a parent who knows how deeply you loved your child, and as a parent who, like you, would do anything—including give my own life—to protect my child, my only hope is that you, the parents of these angels, know that you are not alone. Parents all over the world are feeling pain, sorrow, and heartbreak for you, your families and your beautiful babies.
Knowing that there is a possibility that our children could leave this world before we do, that they are at risk of being hurt when we are not there, that we could one day feel the same unbearable sadness and devastation that you feel now, allows us to "go there" and carry a slight tiny fraction of the heavy pain and sadness that you must be bearing. I wish more than anything in the world that I could bear more for you. I wish that each parent in this world could take away an ounce of your sadness and hurt so that your hearts could heal sooner.
Just know that you are not alone—millions of loving parents around the world are praying for you, shedding tears for you, thinking about you and grieving with you.
Love, a fellow loving parent,