Mummy Buzz

Oct
07
2014

Stay-At-Home Moms: This Is What To Write On Your Resume

Dear Future Employer

How many of us can relate to this career mom's dread of the "white space" on her resume following the birth of her first child? This fictional letter to a future employer struck a nerve. In a former life, Janie Porter was a successful TV reporter. But she wants the world to know that in her three-year hiatus from the office she has been working—hard—at being a mom.

Porter does a good job at painting the frustrating reality for working moms who are torn between staying at home to care for their children and returning to a career that expects them "to be available 24/7 to respond to an unending stream of work-related emails, texts and phone calls."

She readily admits that her current role as a parent is simply incompatible with her previous career, a sobering fact for many moms who are forced to rethink, and occasionally revamp, their careers after starting a family.

Porter goes one further, filling in the dead space by detailing her new skill set, which includes powers of negotiation to "convince a toddler to eat broccoli, go potty in the toilet and wear shoes outside." 

Breaking a big story on a deadline or interviewing a big shot has nothing on the pressure that comes with being a parent. In the face of a tantrum, Porter has the newfound ability "to lace my frayed nerves into a soft blanket of calm."

So what looks like, for all intents, a great big void on a resume may actually be representative of the richest challenge of a woman's career to date. It's time employers look past the gaps and saw the unsung contributions. 
 
But Porter is a realist, noting in a post-script to her future employer that "there will be no hard feelings when you discard this letter and decide to hire a 20-something who doesn't mind living for their job." Meh.
 
You tell me: Can you relate to Porter's post-baby career crisis? How did you make it work? What stay-at-home-mom skills would you add to your resume.
 
This celebrity got the hackles up when she said, "You can’t be a great mom and keep working."