Jun
11
2012

A Conversation with TV Actress Challen Cates

Star of Big Time Rush dishes about Hollywood

A Conversation with TV Actress Challen Cates

Last week, I got the chance to sit down on the phone and chat with Challen Cates,  star of Nickelodeon’s Big Time Rush (parents of teens and pre-teens will know her as Mrs. Knight on the show) . Cates is lovely to chat with and we talked about everything from the show, BTR to motherhood and the pressure to stay gorgeous in Hollywood.

 

 Can you tell me a little bit about Big Time Rush and how you got involved with the show?

 It’s about four boys in a band from Minnesota who move from there to LA to be in the next big band. I play the mum of Kendall. I knew the casting director and she brought me in on this show.

 What’s your favourite part of working on the show?

 The sense of family and collaboration. It’s a really fun and loving environment and we all genuinely like each other and care about each other. We have a great time. I always look forward to going to work because I know it’s gonna be fun, and enjoyable…and funny. I’m lucky.

 Do you go on the BTR Tours ever?

 The boys are great performers—I’ve gone to see them in concert and I took my kids and my husband and we had a great time. I was so proud and I couldn’t believe when I looked around the room and all of these screaming fans and I’m looking at these four guys and thinking about our first table read and how far they’ve come in such a short time. But yes, they go on tour and the show goes on hiatus. They are going on tour in July, and once they come back, hopefully we’ll be doing another season. I’ve seen almost every famous rock band and they (the boys in BTR) put on a good show.

 What’s it like working with the guys? I’m sure that teen girls must want to ask you that all the time.

 You know, it’s fun because they have so much energy and enthusiasm and it’s really infectious. I love working with all four boys in the same scene and you hold onto that energy the rest of your day. It keeps me feeling young and keeps me hipper with stuff I would have no idea with otherwise. It’s very energetic and just great.

 I know that last summer, a BTR comic was produced—were you involved at all?

 I didn’t know about it at all! I had no idea. That’s very cool though!

 What’s it like being a working mom in Hollywood?

 (Laughs) ummm. It’s well, it’s challenging because as any working mom knows, it’s challenging to manage your schedule because you want to spend as much time as you can with your kids but you also want to do a good job at whatever your job is. So it’s always a struggle to find that balance and I rely on a lot of other people in my life so I can focus more on the kids. I’m really fortunate that I work on a kids show because it's a kid friendly set and the kids have come to visit. They love Sierra, who plays Katie, who’s come to baby sit them a couple of times. I’m fortunate to say that my kids are a part of my work life as well. They benefit from it. I’ve taken them to the kid’s choice awards, my kids came to the set of the Nickelodeon show “figure it out.” They took slime to school for show and tell, so, I guess that’s the only part that’s different—we’re in Hollywood and my kids get to benefit from the fact that I’m on a kids show.

 You have starred in and produced two movies—that’s like a 5th hat to wear: did you think you could get through it all?

 I know, right? It’s crazy. I’ll tell you how I did that – I did it before I had kids. I was really able to focus on that. I would love to produce another film and I have been reading lots of scripts and trying to find the right project. And this time, I think, it would just take longer…a longer prep time. Cause I have less time so that’s the only way I think it could happen.

 There is a lot of pressure in Hollywood to stay thin and young—do you think that pressure has affected you?

 You know, it certainly does affect me, and I do feel it. And it’s hard to see yourself on camera all the time and see photographs of yourself and you're watching yourself age. And there’s no way that I can say that it’s not challenging. But I try and live a healthy lifestyle and I don’t believe in doing anything to extreme—I believe in moderation. I work out, and eat healthy and I try to have fun and I think that reflects on how you look. If you are enjoying your life, you look a lot better.

 What lessons have you learned about the industry that you’d like to pass on to your children?

 You know, I think it’s probably, and not specific to the entertainment business, just "Always Be Prepared." I’m always prepared when I go on an audition and go to work. Be prepared, be on time and be professional. I think all those things are important it doesn’t matter what you are doing. And treating everyone with equal kindness.

 What would you do if one or both of your kids wanted to become actors?

 Maybe I would cry. No…oh. It could happen. I need to prepare myself for this. I would, um, if that was what they absolutely wanted to do and there was nothing else that was pulling at them, I would be supportive and I would do everything I could to help them in their pursuit. And I would also caution them of the difficulties of being an actor, the challenges and how emotional it can be. I don’t want to say heartbreaking, but there is so much rejection and it is really hard to handle the rejection. 

 

You can catch Challen Cates on Nickelodeon's Big Time Rush. Photo courtesy of Jeff Katz Photography

Jun
08
2012

Why 50 Shades of Grey?

What is the appeal to "mommy porn"?

Why 50 Shades of Grey?

When I first heard about E.L. James' 50 Shades of Grey it was about how this lone woman writing Twilight fanfic managed to rename Edward and Bella (Christian and Anastasia) without getting sued and that the book was full of BDSM. As someone who likes to read fantasy novels, I totally understand the appeal of just falling in love with characters and situations where the writing isn't great. However, what I was hearing was that the 50 Shades writing was poor. I had someone say to me, "I felt stupider after reading it." And I get that it's sort of Harlequin meets hard-core-sex, but could it be that bad? And how can all these seemingly intelligent women be interested in reading such drivel just for the sex?

My BFF Jessy picked up 50 Shades and she immediately said this to me, "I'm about to start 50 Shades of Grey. There is plenty of good porn on the internet. No need to spend $20 on a book. IT'S $20!" (via text) And that got me thinking—sure, there's LOADS (ha ha) of porn online (isn't that what the net was invented for?) and if you are into BDSM, I highly recommend checking out soon-to-be GQ cover boy, James Deen

But there's something about this book—parodied by SNL and many others (anyone see Gilbert Gottfried reading excerpts?) that keeps drawing women in....but I completely don't get it. I don't understand how poorly written erotic fiction is turning so many of you on in a major way. I don't understand how you're not embarrassed by seeing every other mum wandering around with a copy of this or the other two books in the series. I don't understand why you don't just watch porn. 

I just do not understand the appeal.

Although, Jessy may be sold. The day after the text above, I received this, also via text, "They just had their first kiss and I'm blushing! This is terrible!"

So, spill it! PLEASE explain to me why 50 Shades of Grey is more enticing than pornography? 

 

PS, This handy dandy flow chart may come in handy for those of you still on the fence about reading the book!

PPS Watch this!

Jun
07
2012

Breeyn McCarney's Vessel 2012

Collaborative fashion from an up-and-coming Toronto designer

Breeyn McCarney's Vessel 2012

Let's talk about something a little out of the ordinary...and then we'll get back to 50 Shades of Puce or whatever you guys are reading this week.

Last week in Toronto, I was invited to a decidedly un-fashion-week show Vessel 2012—a collaboration between designer Breeyn McCarney, and artist Irena Komadinic (and styled by the most talented stylist I know, Arianne Young). Breeyn and Irena started their collaboration because they both hated zombies, and then somehow got to talking about the heart (Vessel, get it?). In their first collaboration (I personally, hope there's more because as you guys will see, the stuff they produced is amazing!), Breeyn felt that their distance (Irena lives in Hamilton) made it a bit difficult, but she assured me, "I hope to collaborate with her again one day, so we will have to find a way to solve this issue." I hope so too.

This is the dress that opened Vessel 2012

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This dress floored me. It's red-carpet ready and just flowed beautifully. Breeyn does a lot of hands on work—take a look at these two pieces

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This dress was called "The 100 Hour Dress" no guesses why. 

Breeyn-leather-brocade

For this piece, Breeyn hand stamped and stitched individual pieces of leather together which Irena then painted. I need this in my life. 

Breeyn-flapper

This dress is another amazing piece I would love to see on the red carpet somewhere...Natalie Lisinska, I'm looking at you! 

There were a lot of other pieces, and since the show had a very specific Haute-Couture feel, I asked Bree if she had any plans on making more pieces like this. She said, "There are some pieces that we are unable to reproduce, thought many could be made to order. I am releasing a Ready-to-Wear line based on Vessel in September for the holiday season. There will be some recognizable elements of the collection, so for those who can't afford to commission their own art dresses, there will be some wearable versions to choose from."

Probably the most interesting aspect to this show for me was Breeyn crowd-sourcing for funds to produce the show. She got some flack, but I thought it was an awesome idea. She said, "I got the idea to crowd-fund from Juma. They had attempted to use Kick-Starter to fund their s/s show in NY last year. Because I'm so hampered by my political views, there are very often conflicts of interest in receiving money from companies...It was largely successful, though we took some rather nasty criticism."

Breeyn's work has always spoken to me, and she's even called me her muse (More than once! I die). She's building her brand and name with both this signature line and her flirty line Another Word For Pink. I own at least 10 dresses from both lines and a boatload of custom stuff. Breeyn also does weddings and custom pieces (including for my friend Shlo who's getting married in two weeks!) and her star is definitely on the rise. 

From L-R, Socialite Ainsley Kerr, Publicist April Jackson and Actress Kerry Laifatt

 

Thanks to photographer Kyle Burton for his images from Breeyn and Irena's show (www.kyleburton.ca)