There's a reason why every sex expert under the sun says, "Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay."
In our hectic, stress-induced world, women get wrapped up in her never ending to-do lists and become disconnected from her body.
Foreplay helps couples to reconnect with each other, their bodies and gets them juiced-up and into the lovemaking experience. Imagine, just ten minutes can mean the difference between mediocre sex and fantastic sex.
Massage is such an easy way to create a fantastic foreplay experience as the soothing touch provides the gateway for her to focus on her sexual pleasure.
Giving her a massage doesn't have to be an hour-long affair with candles and massage oils; a ten minute hand or foot massage will provide similar results.
Don’t worry if you’ve never done this before; making the effort and doing your best is what matters.
Keep in mind: remove any ideas of having sex once the massage is done: give the massage simply because she’ll love it. If anything else happens afterwards, great! But don’t expect more than a smile and thank you.
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