Like Mother's Day, Father's Day is a bittersweet time for many children young and old.
Some people lose their fathers early, while others feel the scars of a bad relationship or grow up with a crater-sized absence where a dad should have been present but for whatever reason, was not.
Fear not. If there's no father in your life, you can now rent one via an app called Catcher.
The purpose of the app is simple and steeped in nostalgia for a bygone era when quality dad time involved digging out a baseball and glove for a game of 'catch.'
With many of today's fathers "too busy working" to play catch, the app sources willing stand-ins to play the dad role. Instead of working to change this sorry state of affairs by finding ways for modern dads to work less and be more present for their kids, we now look to apps for an alternative.
The thinking is reminiscent of the recent classified posted by this couple seeking surrogate grandparents for their children. In the age of disconnect, people are increasingly recognizing the importance of having role models for their kids - and turning to tech to fill the human void.
"If we can use Tinder to find a date and Uber to find a cab, why can't we leverage technology to have a catch?" asks app founder, Brody Perkins.
It's an interesting concept. Is it legitimate? Who knows. It might be. After all, organizations like Big Brothers and Sisters were founded on the very idea that you can glean the benefits of having a sibling without the incumbent pain of sharing the same roof. So it stands to reason, you can be fatherly without actually being a father.
It stands to reason, you can bond with an adult male without necessarily having to share his DNA. At least that's the theory.
Everyone needs a father figure, I'll concede that much. But there is one major flaw with Catcher: not everyone wants to play catch.
Obesity is a real problem that often has its origins in childhood.
As a parent, it's hard to know whether to speak up or stay silent when your child is overweight. If you comment, you risk setting your kid up for an eating disorder. If you say nothing, you may be jeopardizing your kids' health.
A new study published in the journal Eating & Weight Disorders has found that a parent's comments on their child's weight can have a lasting damaging impact. Researchers who looked at more than 500 women in their 20s and 30s found that even if the child was not overweight, comments about weight could trigger disordered eating and bodily dissatisfaction in later life.
“Parents who have a child who’s identified as having obesity may be worried, but the way those concerns are discussed and communicated can be really damaging,” said Rebecca Puhl, deputy director of the Rudd Center for Food Policy and Obesity at the University of Connecticut. “The longitudinal research shows it can have a lasting impact.”
Girls were particularly susceptible because they tend to internalize messages about their body image. The study found that comments parents made in childhood were directly tied to how the women later perceived themselves. It didn't even matter how infrequently the comments were made or whether the women were overweight at the time, the effects were profound.
I can relate. As a chubby child, my weight was openly discussed and remarked upon by classmates, family members, my doctor (in front of me). It was a subject. Puberty saw my limbs stretch out. My childish paunch disappeared, leaving in its wake a flat stomach. But it was too late. When I looked in the mirror, I still saw the chubby girl. I see her to this day. Decades later, I can't quite leave her behind. I'm still stuck listening to the same boring fat rhetoric and berating myself for not eating less/better and exercising more on an almost daily basis.
I'm not unique in this regard.
In fact, other studies have pointed to the fact that early comments can even increase the likelihood of obesity several years on. And comments made by family members hurt the most.
According to Dr. Puhl, parents end up “tying weight to some kind of perception about how the child is valued," which in turn can lead to negative feelings and disordered eating.
The message is clear: rather than talking to your kids about dieting or losing weight, parents should direct the conversation to healthy eating patterns and modelling when it comes to exercise and food shopping.
Puhl suggests not even broaching the subject until child does. And even then, not until children are older. Weight should not even be on a young child's radar. Always, parents should offer support without judgment.
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Health Canada has expanded its May 20, 2016 recall of various models of doctor playsets sold at Dollar Tree stores.
The sets, for children aged two and up, contain a stethoscope and other toy medical implements, and have the following identification number: RA-58868.
The ear buds on the stethoscope - as well as the tip of the toy syringe - may detach, posing a choking hazard to young children.
Although neither Health Canada nor Dollar Tree has received any reports of incidents involving the playsets, customers are advised to remove them from children immediately and return to a Dollar Tree location for a full refund.
From July 2011 to December 2015, approximately 31,554 playsets were sold at Dollar Tree Canada locations across Canada.
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