I learned to take a good hard look at how I defined myself and my own relationship to love.
All roads point to sex being negative and a source of shame - never an intimate, healing, spiritual act that can also be damn fun and feel good.
Valentines Day for Kids
Everything Valentines day now is targeted at kids, and I think it's time we take one holiday back for us adults.
One of the hardest things my wife and I have had to adapt to as a couple is having a child, and lately I've allowed it to drive a wedge between us.
I expect my husband to help around the house, just as he expects me to.