December 21, 2009
Oh boy. How do I say this without offending people...
Festive Greetings? Happy Holidays? Screw it, Merry Christmas!
There I said it.
Merry Christmas to you, people who celebrate it as a religious holiday.
Merry Christmas to you, those who view it as simply a time to be with family and friends.
Merry Christmas to you, the ones that just like the gifts.
Merry Christmas to you, the people who are scared of not being politically-correct by saying it.
Merry Christmas to you, the ones that decided the tree in city hall has to be called a holiday tree from now on.
Merry Christmas to everyone around the world who understands that although the word "Christ" is in the word, it doesn't have to have religious meaning to everyone.
Yes, Christmas has religious origins, I get that. However, it's one of the few that can also be celebrated by people that are not religious. The candy canes on our tree don't have crosses on them and the tinsel hasn't been blessed by the pope. When I say Merry Christmas to someone, it's said with joy and warmth in hoping that the receiver of the message knows that I wish them all the love of the holidays, regardless of how they're celebrating it. But even if it has a religious meaning for some, you shouldn't have to hide that fact.
We've moved too far on the scale of correctness to achieve equality, which is the practice of treating everyone equal, instead of searching for equity, which is acknowledging our differences, and embracing them.
I want people of the Jewish faith to say "Happy Hanukah" to me. It makes me smile knowing they are wishing me the best with their tradition. I don't feel offended, nor excluded. I feel included. I don't want you having to call a menorah a "festive multi-candle".
Is Kwanzaa your thing? Awesome, I want to see your smile when you express it in the store check-out line.
My corporate background is Human Resources. I spent more time trying to not offend anyone than I did seeing how we could help them embrace their celebration. You want to make sure you're being politically correct? Allow all festive celebrations in the work place and allow people to learn about each one. Each day feature one, bring in the food that people enjoy, have a lunch and learn for others to see what the traditions are.
It’s why my son will say Merry Christmas to everyone. We're not a religious family, but we are one that understands that everyone has a right to be anything they want, the freedom to say what they want, and want to give them a hug after they say it as a thank-you.
Merry Christmas, no offense :)
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December 18, 2009
Avatar is a great movie, but is it ok for your kids? I answer that in this video review!
Scott Stratten is an author, speaker and ranter who runs one of the most successful viral marketing companies in the world. Yet he still has no idea why the teacher won’t bump his son's grades to an A+ and is appalled he has to pay for his own coffee.
But it was after gaining custody of his son that Scott realized, regardless of his own business success, it meant nothing if he wasn't able to succeed as a dad.
When Scott started hanging out with the YummyMummyClub crew in real life and on Twitter he found himself defending a woman’s right to breastfeed in public and rallying behind moms who are overworked and underpaid. Since he was able to offer a dad-perspective on these hot button topics, he figured he should write a blog.
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