You've probably heard that our brain is our biggest sex organ. So an easy way to get in themood when you're busy running around all day and have zero energy is...to create positive sexual anticipation.
Sexual desire refers to the thoughts you have about sex before, during, and after. And it can have a profound impact on the quality (and quantity) of your sexual experience.
Sexual anticipation can sometimes be as exciting as the actual event—and it's one of your most powerful tools to create a fabulous romantic encounter.
So why not drive your partner wild with anticipation?
Here's how.
Plan a wonderful, romantic evening to spoil your partner.
Write a sentence or two that gives your lover a hint about what they can expect. Put it into love notes, write it on bathroom mirrors or whisper it suggestively in your mate's ear.
Then give a little smile, walk away and let his or her imagination soar. Super simple and super effective.
How have you driven your partner wild with sexual anticipation?
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