What You Need to Know Before Handing Over the Keys to the Smartphone Castle

It's no question that cell phones have become a staple in the lives of — well, almost everyone. In fact, 15% of 18- to 29-year-olds are heavily dependent on their smartphones for access to the Internet.

Whether you like these devices or not, the fact of the matter is that cell phones are useful, especially if you want to keep in touch with your children. But the question remains: what should you know before you give your child a cell phone?

The "Right" Age?

The question is being debated more and more frequently as children as young as seven are receiving smartphones. The problem is that, unlike the laws associated with privileges like driving a car, there are no agreed-upon rules or guidelines for parents to follow when it comes to smartphones.

On average, children receive their first smartphones around the age of 10, which is a decrease from the average age of 12 in 2012, according to research from Influence Central.

"I think that age is going to trend even younger, because parents are getting tired of handing their smartphones to their kids," said Stacy DeBroff, chief executive of Influence Central.

It can be difficult and annoying to child-proof your smartphone, and what happens when you're not together, but you both need the phone?

Does it Have to Be a Smartphone?

There's no rule that says your child's first phone has to be a smartphone. A smartphone means unfettered access to the Internet, games, and just about everything else. Not only that, but most smartphones aren't as sturdy as a Nokia from the early 2000s. Younger kids, in particular, may need something a bit sturdier.

A smartphone is a big responsibility and requires some trust between child and parent. If you're of the mindset that your child should learn responsibility before getting a smartphone, you can start small.

Take the Time to Talk

Whether it's a simple texting phone or another device with a touch screen, you should take steps to ensure that your child understands the responsibilities that come with a smartphone.

Take time to talk about what's expected of your child if and when they receive a smartphone. Simple things like agreeing on a list of approved apps and games, and setting limits on data usage and number of texts, are good places to start.

Once you've established some guidelines, you can discuss shopping for a cell phone.

The most important thing to keep in mind is communication. If you and your child can successfully communicate and establish mutual trust, then you just may be ready to give them their first phone.