YummyMummyClub.ca polled hundreds of busy, multi-tasking moms and dads across the country about their sex lives after kids leaving nary a stone, or private moment, unturned.  The numbers below give the facts but it's this story behind the numbers that will leave you breathless.  

Q1:  How often do you have sex with your partner? Women Men
Daily 5.8% 8.3%
Weekly 45.9% 41.7%
Monthly 23.5% 27.8%
ummmm...not so much 24.9% 22.2%

 

Q2:  Are your sexual relations planned or scheduled in advance? Women Men
Yes, planned 17% 21.7%
No, scheduled in advance 83% 78.3%

 

Q3:  Who initiates the sex? Women Men
Me 25.8% 72.6%
My partner 74.2% 27.4%

 

Q4:  What time of day do you most often have sex? Women Men
Morning 7.4% 7.5%
Daytime 5.8% 10.4%
Night 79.2% 77.4%
Middle of the night 7.7% 4.7%

 

Q5:  Do you use toys? Women Men
Yes 32.6% 30.8%
No 67.4% 69.2%

 

Q6:  Where do you have sex most often? Women Men
Bedroom 94.4% 96.1%
Living Room/Den 5.6% 3.9%

 

Q7:  Are the lights on or off? Women Men
On 30.0% 30.8%
Off 70.0% 69.2%

 

Q8:  Do you lock the door? Women Men
Yes 23.6% 31.1%
No 76.4% 68.9%

 

Q9:  Do you orgasm? Women Men
Yes 74.1% 99.1%
No 25.9% 0.9%

 

Q10:  Does it matter to you whether you orgasm during sex? Women Men
Yes 46.7% 65.4%
No 53.3% 34.6%

 

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Q11:  On average, how long does sex last? Women Men
A minute...who are we kidding? 2.2% 2.8%
5-10 minutes 25.6% 24.5%
10-20 minutes 40.7% 41.5%
20-30 minutes 22,7% 21.7%
30-60 minutes 8.6% 7.5%
over 60 minutes 0.1% 1.9%

 

Q12:  Did you have sex with your partner when she was pregnant? Women Men
Yes 87.1% 86.8%
No 12.9% 13.2%

 

Q13:  Was pregnant sex enjoyable? Women Men
Yes 69.2% 87.1%
No 30.8% 12.9%

 

Q14:  How long did you wait to have sex again after your partner gave birth? Women Men
A month 14.8% 20.0%
6 weeks 30.8% 21.0%
2 months 24.3% 22.9%
3 months 11.0% 16.2%
more than 3 months 16.3% 19.0%
uh yah, still haven't! 2.8% 1.0%

 

Q15:  Do you have more or less sex since having children? Women Men
More 9.0% 8.7%
Less 74.5% 72.1%
The same amount as before kids 16.4% 19.2%

 

Q20:  Is sex hotter post-children? Women Men
Yes 34.0% 37.9%
No 66.0% 62.1%

 

Q21:  Do you need to fantasize, watch or read something sexy to get in the mood? Women Men
Yes 33.0% 17.4%
No 67.0% 82.6%

 

Q22:  Would you have more sex if you had more time to? Women Men
Yes 78.1% 90.2%
No 21.9% 9.8%

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