When we became parents, one of the first things we bought (after the car seat and crib and stroller) was a digital camera. Like all proud parents we recorded every smile, every milestone, every everything. But after three kids I’ve learned some family moments just shouldn’t be captured on film, no matter how proud you are.
Parents: It's Not The Firsts You Should Be Recording
First Trip to the Emergency Room
A first that most kids will hit at least once (though but probably more), but do you really want a photographic record of it? Panic, pain, blood are all things that don’t make a great family photo. Instead keep the emergency room trip as an anecdotal tale. You can skip the scary parts and you won’t have to worry about friends fainting at the sight of blood. Potty Poop
Potty training is an important process parents go through with their kids. We read books, sing songs, give stickers and treats. And when the big moment comes, when our children start to use the potty, nothing makes us prouder. But that doesn’t mean you should snap a picture of it. When’s the last time you heard a proud mom displaying her photos say: ‘And here is Johnny’s first poop. We were all so proud. Everyone got a copy of this at Christmas. Isn’t it cute?’
The Most Common Mistake Every Parent Makes When Potty Training Novelty Scenes on Christmas Cards
Photo cards are great to send out at Christmas. And a digital camera makes it even easier and inexpensive for parents to add their own creative touches. Save yourself some embarrassment this Christmas by being careful about what you include on your card. You may look good in green and red striped tights and have a fetish for wearing bells, but maybe that should be saved for an adventurous night with your spouse.
There are no hard and fast rules about what you should and should not take pictures of. I’m only offering you advice based on my personal experience (and years of therapy). But if you have taken a photo of something and regretted it later, I’d love to hear about it. Misery loves company.
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