There are certain things you hear in your life that stick with you. For me, one of the great life changers was hearing the great Homer Simpson say: “I am so smart, S-M-R-T, I mean S-M-A-R-T.”
Ok, maybe that was a ridiculous quote, but I know the key to growing and improving my mind is to learn. With this knowledge in hand (see what I did there?), I signed up for a robotics course at Stanford, ‘Physics III’ at MIT and ‘Roy’s writing tools’ at Poynter.
No, I’m not made of money, and I don’t have a time machine, but I do have an iTunes account and an iPod touch, so I downloaded iTunes U.
iTunes U is a free app that gives you access to over 500,000 free lectures, videos, books and other resources, all from the world’s leading educational institutes. As you can see from my selections, course topics cover seemingly everything, and the app contains course materials, books and presentations. If you’re an iPad user you can even download iBooks textbooks from within iTunes U.
Educators are provided with tools to create an e-delivery platform of their course. This means that they can curate every aspect of the course, from lectures, to notes, to homework assignments. As a student of iTunes U, you will then be able to do course assignments, take notes, access course materials, all without feeling guilty for waking up 5 minutes before you were supposed to be in class. (Ahem. Sorry to my physics prof for that one.)
And while there are no Canadian universities in the library yet, I’m excited to see how teachers will use this new platform to deliver courses to students of all ages all over the world. Imagine being able to take a course on the Canadian history from a Canadian University for free from the other side of the globe. This is the kind of stuff that makes me super excited about the future of technology.
Oh, I have to go, my lecture on Ecosystems is about to start!
iTunes U is available for free and will run on an iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch with iOS 5 or later.
You will need an iTunes store account, iTunes 10.5.3 or later , and of course, as with all online content, the selection of courses, collections, and availability of content linked from within a course may vary by country.
If you want more info on iTunes U directly from Apple, you can go to their help guide here.
(Warning – this post contains explicit language.)
My friend asked me if it was possible that her daughter was sexting. Gulp.
Like many of you, she bought her two tween daughters iPhones for Christmas. Like many of you, she hadn’t set rules for what the phone is ‘supposed’ to be used for, but she also hadn’t really thought about the real implications of her daughters being fully connected to a network of friends when the parental units are not around.
Sexting is defined on Wikipedia as “the act of sending sexually explicit messages or photographs, primarily between mobile phones.” On urban dictionary it’s defined as “the act of text messaging someone in the hopes of having a sexual encounter with them later.” The truth of the matter is if a kid is underage and sending or receiving photos—even of themselves—with naked breasts, genitals or bottoms it could potentially violate child pornography laws. Serious stuff right?
Before you panic, what you should know is that recent studies have found kids aren’t hiding in their closets to send racy text messages or naked photos of themselves nearly as much as the media is making them out to be.
In a recent study by the University of New Hampshire :
“UNH researchers surveyed 1,560 Internet users ages 10 through 17 about their experiences with sexting -- appearing in, creating, or receiving sexual images or videos via cell phone or the Internet. The study found that 2.5 percent of youth surveyed have participated in sexting in the past year, but only 1 percent involved images that potentially violate child pornography laws -- images that showed “naked breasts, genitals or bottoms.”
While talking about it my friend commented, “well, if they are texting and aren’t actually having sex I think I’m cool with it. No chance of my daughter coming home with a pregnant cell phone or an STD.”
I guess she makes a valid point, but as I mentioned before, in this information age, anything someone posts/texts could eventually come back to haunt them. A text message could be spread around the school, or a photo could end up on facebook .
My friend then asked me how we could work with her daughters to create an ‘acceptable use policy’ for cell phone usage in her house.
Here is what we came up with:
Ground rules for cell phone usage—by Mom
If I pay the bill, I own the phone. This means I have the right to spot check. I want to respect your privacy, but it’s important for me to make sure you are safe, and for you to understand that in the ‘real world’ if your employer is paying for your phone they will be doing the same. If you are paying for it yourself, I still need to know that I can check up on you for your safety. I won’t read every message, but have the right as your parent to spot check when my gut tells me I need to.
If you are sending or receiving texts or photos you don’t feel comfortable with, you need to talk to me. Please don’t wait, talk to me right away before it gets out of control. I will be more upset if something happens to you than I will be if I find out you’ve been sexting. My goal in life is to keep you safe. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to me, call Kids Help Phone 1-800-668-6868
All cell phones in our house are to be docked at the charging station by the front door after supper. This includes the parents. This will give us more time to talk to each other, and spend time as a family.
Your words and actions are an extension of your body. I love you and respect you, and I expect you and the people around you to do the same.
We printed the policy and put it on the fridge, then started talking about how a parent can tell that someone is sexting.
Kids are smart. Teens are smarter. And that feeling you get when you ask where the PB&J sandwich disappeared to (you know, the feeling that puts your body on auto-pilot and walks you right to the couch cushion) is the same feeling that should drive you to check their cell phones.
My friend said “I can hardly understand when she’s texting me normally, how the heck am I going to be able to dissect a sext conversation?”
Well, chances are you know the standard texting phrases, but here are some common sexting and instant messaging phrases you might want to watch out for.
8 Oral Sex
143 I Love You
cu46 See You For Sex
DUM Do You Masturbate?
GNOC Get Naked On Cam
GYPO Get Your Pants Off
GNRN Get Naked right Now
IWS I Want Sex
RUH Are You Horny?
TDTM Talk Dirty To Me
S2R Send To Receive
NIFOC Naked In Front Of Computer
PAW Parents Are Watching
PIR Parent In Room
POS Parent Over Shoulder
YWS You Want Sex
WYCM Will You Call Me
It’s time to involve sexting with ‘the talk.’ Kids need to know that sharing text or photos that are sexually explicit can hurt them. They need to understand that predators are smart, and if they do what this creepo was doing, they can get involved in something that most adults couldn’t even handle.
So, tell me, what are your thoughts on sexting? What would you do if you caught some of the codes above on your childs phone? Do you talk to your kids about how they use their cell phones?