When was the last time you bought a sexy pair of underwear? Take each other shopping for sexy lingerie to set a spark.
Whether actually going to a store or doing it online make your sexy lingerie shopping trip that much more fun by having your partner tag along and help you pick something out.
Indulge in a lace teddy or silk boxer shorts. If you’re the adventurous type, try edible candy underwear.
I was volunteering at my son’s playschool when his teacher announced that the kids were going to start their Mother’s Day gift. Under my breath I said, “Do you know what I really want for Mother’s Day?”
The other mommy volunteer must have heard me because she chimed in with, “Time to myself!”
Smiling at her I got into the Mother’s Day fantasy, “A full day at the spa, with a bunch of people waiting on my every need.”
I believe it was the media frenzy surrounding the Tiger Woods’ scandal that made sex addiction ‘real’ to people. Ironically the poster boy for sex addiction, Tiger Woods, doesn’t have a sex addiction: massive ego and poor judgment certainly; a sex addiction, certainly not.
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My (childless) friend confusedly asked, “You’re trying to have sex once a week…? That really isn’t complicated. What’s the problem?” With a deep sigh, I had to admit that even to me it sounded pretty lame.
How could I explain that with two toddlers taking a shower once a week was an exercise in time-management gymnastics—and a much higher priority than sex?
Perhaps if I had ten consecutive seconds to think straight, I could eagerly anticipate sex. As it is, remembering to have sex during the week is a victorious, high-five-with-my-husband worthy achievement.
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