Dr. Trina Read: Mummy Sex

Apr
08
2013

Create the Perfect Man Day

Love bomb your man with an aphrodisiac steak, a frosty beer...and these love tips.

We often hear that men should help his woman feel special but rarely do we hear that a woman should help her man feel special.

So ladies it's time for a 'Man Day.' Find more at: Eat Drink Love TV.

Find out how to make this recipe on EatDrinkLoveTV.com

 

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Mar
24
2013

Have a Lazy Day Love-In

Eat Drink Love: Creating happy relationships with food and drink

Very excited to announce my new video series called Eat Drink Love. It's all about creating happy relationships and memories with yummy food and drink. Here is the first attempt at creating this video series and any feedback you have is greatly appreciated.

Have a Lazy Day Love-In

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Mar
15
2013

Products to Awaken Your Sensuality

The Earthly Delights tin is a great sensual starter kit

Feb
18
2013

Finding My G-Spot?

Is it possible during the 15 to 20 minutes allocated to sex? Apparently not.

Jan
21
2013

No Sex This Week

And It's My Husband's Fault

This is a good news and bad news week

The good news…I’m into my skinny jeans (holy cow!)
I couldn’t believe it. Emboldened by seeing my clothes looser around my childbearing hips I thought, “Why don’t I see how far I can bring my skinny jeans up my thighs.” I pulled them up and did up the button—I can even breath and sit down. Genuinely astonished!

The bad news…I’m only human
My passive aggressive side came out this week.

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Dec
30
2012

Dinner Date with a Side of Awkward Conversation

Talking about sex is incredibly important; but talking about sex is awkward and can put a couple off of sex.

Week #17—Six Month Sex Challenge:

If I Had a Nickel…
If I had a nickel for every time I’ve said, “Great sex starts with great communication,” well, I’d be retired to the Bahamas by now.

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Dec
23
2012

Sex in the Shower

Oh shower sex how I love thee. You’re fun, easy, convenient…and quick (because sometimes there is only a tiny bit of time when both children are napping.)

Week #16 Six Month Sex Challenge

Ode to Shower Sex
Oh shower sex how I love thee. You’re fun, easy, convenient…and quick (because sometimes there is only a tiny bit of time when both children are napping and sex is possible.)

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Dec
17
2012

New Mom = No Sex Drive

New moms probably aren’t suffering from low libido. Responsibility is the culprit that zaps your sex drive.

Dec
07
2012

Spicing Things Up With Porn

A little porn can add a lot of spice…it’s finding the right porn to suit your taste and values.

Dec
01
2012

Getting Back Into an Intimacy Groove

Intimacy has been shifted to my baby and I need to recreate it with my husband. Time to try a sexy board game.

Week #13 Six Month Sex Challenge

What is Intimacy?
Too often people assume that the word ‘intimacy’ has to do solely with sex: saying things like, “Let’s get intimate tonight.” When I appear on some TV shows, the producers ask me to substitute the word ‘intimacy’ for ‘sex’ to make the segment ‘kid friendly’.

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Nov
26
2012

Praise His Penis

Thank goodness we tried the Tenga Flip...I needed the laugh.

Nov
16
2012

It's an All-About-My-Husband Sexapalooza

For being such a great husband, I decided to treat him to three weeks of all-about-him sexy fun

Week #11 Six Month Sex Challenge

For being such a great husband, I decided to treat him to three weeks of sexy fun. It’s an all-about-him sexapalooza.

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Nov
11
2012

I Went Underwear Shopping...With My Two Toddlers

I thought buying a cute bra and panty set would help me feel sexy again. It did just the opposite.

Week #10—Six Month Sex Challenge

Ode to my Lingerie Draw
Since university—while living on spaghetti and adrenaline—I’ve always had a drawer full of beautiful, expensive lingerie. It cusped on obsession. And this was before the Victoria Secret took the world by storm.

In my twenties, I swore up, down and sideways that unless it had to do with period-panties, I would NEVER under any conditions, ever, wear cotton undies.

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Nov
04
2012

Sex in the Middle of Post-Partum Depression

The We-Vibe is a freakin’ marvelous sex toy!

Week #9—The Six Month Sex Challenge

Struck with The Baby Blues
I suppose I’m lucky. I’ve dealt with mild depression for twenty years. Managed by an on-going regime of eating well, exercise and understanding what is happening, rather than fighting it.

With both babies my post-partum depression has come out suddenly—mostly when I’m exhausted—stays a while and then goes away. My world hasn’t been turned upside down because I’m used to depression; it’s more of a hugely inconvenient blip.

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Oct
29
2012

Hot Oil Massage? Yes Please!

The best foreplay EVER is day dreaming of an all-about-me hot oil massage.

Week #8—Six Month Sex Challenge

The Magnificent Jimmy Jane Candle
Warm massage oil being dribbled onto and lovingly massaged into my tired naked body. This was the thought that I’ve fantasized, perhaps obsessed, about all week.

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Oct
22
2012

Hooray! We Finally Had Sex

Pass the lubricant honey...and plenty of it...mommy has a dry vagina.

Week #7—Six Month Sex Challenge

After my last blog post about not knowing whether to carry on with this challenge, I had to sit down and do a lot of hard thinking. Actually, it was three days of bouncing between bouts of crying and angrily asking myself, “Why does this have to be so difficult? I just want to have sex.”

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Oct
13
2012

The Road to Hell is Paved with Good (Sex) Intentions

It seems my good intentions are not enough to help my flagging sex life.

Week #6 Six Month Sex Challenge

Intention. Such a little word with such big meaning.

I came to the startling realization this week that my sex life has always been and always will be ruled by my intentions (a bit of a Sexologist’s “Eureka” moment actually).

For the last six years, my life’s intention was to have a child. This intention was so strong that, at times, I was blinded to all else.

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Oct
09
2012

Sex in a Tube?

Will a liquid herbal supplement really help me feel like having sex?

This love affair with natural herbal supplements started in those experimental days of University. I discovered how ginseng gives you pep, as well how St. John’s Wort is the only thing that will calm me down when I’m in the midst of an evil-PMS episode.

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Sep
30
2012

What the *!?*!? was I Thinking Trying to Have Sex?

Stretched too thin, grumpy and I'm still supposed to feel like getting my jiggy on? Not likely.

(Note: I wrote this post during the holiday season so sorry for any confusion when you start reading about Christmas.)

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Sep
22
2012

Finding Intimacy in the Middle of a Hernia

I went into Emergency and my husband went into his 'man cave' and somehow we still found time for sex.

Week #3 of my Six Month Sex Challenge and because last week we focussed on my sexual needs, this week it's my husband's turn. Problem is I had a hernia and intercourse was out of the question. Just one more complication in trying to get sex back on track.

Lesson learned from last week: Having my sexual needs met won’t always be greeted enthusiasm. It seems unfair that sex always has to include intercourse in order for my husband to be satisfied...I really need to set a new sex precedent.

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