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Sep
19
2013

Prostate Cancer: The Importance of Early Detection

Why It's Important to #KnowYourNumber

Prostate Cancer: The Importance of Early Detection

My husband — like many men — has an aversion to seeing the doctor. There have been many times where I've had to drag him to the doctor against his will. Well, not literally drag him — he's seven inches taller and fifty pounds heavier than I am — but I have my ways (read: I'm feisty).

Last year, he was building a fence on our property and the metal post pounder (side note: The name "post pounder" makes me giggle...I'm 12) hit him on the top of the head. I walked him to the bathroom, cleaned up the wound, and told him we were going to see the doctor. He protested, but HEAD INJURY = VISIT TO THE DOCTOR. On the drive in he admitted it was the best course of action and after the visit he had a head full of stitches and admonition from the doctor to wear a helmet. Safety first!

When I told him that I would be writing about prostate cancer and how to detect it, I assured him that he wouldn't have to go to the doctor and report it in graphic detail for my post. I also said that I wouldn't be talking about his penis on the Internet.

Him: "The prostate isn't a part of the penis."

Wait, what? Time to read up on the information I received from Prostate Cancer Canada so I can be better informed. Me, being better informed = him going to the doctor to get tested. It's how we roll.

The first thing I read about is who is at high risk:

Race

Men of black African or black Caribbean descent have a higher risk. Well, he is of Dutch descent with (dirty) blonde hair and blue eyes, so this one doesn't apply.

Family history

Men with a first-degree relative (father, brother, son) with prostate cancer have a higher risk. Not applicable for us, as far as we know, but serves as a good reminder to have those chats with family members.

Lifestyle

Maintaining a healthy weight through diet and exercise may reduce the risk. This is similar to some other cancers as well. We eat healthy and he's quite active (weights, running, cycling) so he's at a lower risk.

Age

The older you are, the higher the risk. Just like many cancers. He's on the cusp of 40, so that puts him in the risky area.

That last point alone is enough for him to go. Why not get tested to find out? Better to be safe than sorry. Always.

I think that the most interesting thing for me in reading the information I was given is that I actually had no idea what was involved with getting tested for prostate cancer. I thought the whole "turn your head and cough" bit we've seen on sitcoms was part of it, as well as some... "back end" action. That may come into play later, but it starts with something so simple.

Here is what is involved in the testing process.

  • A blood test. A blood test! The Prostate Specific Antigen (PSA ) test is a blood test that measures the amount of PSA protein in the blood. If red flags show up, THEN further steps are taken. (If your husband complains about a blood test, remind him of the 78 vials of blood you had to give during each pregnancy, and how you pushed a child the size of a watermelon out of a hole the size of an orange. That argument wins, every time.)
  • Getting the PSA test in his early forties gives a man the "baseline" amount. In subsequent blood tests, if the levels are higher, then it's time to have other exams. (Again, if he complains about having a digital rectal exam (DRE), bring up child birth. It's your trump card, but you knew that.)
  • From what I've read, early detection is the key with prostate cancer. It's important to #KnowYourNumber because if it's detected early, the odds of beating it are much greater. Who wouldn't like those odds?

The folks over at Prostate Canada created this short video that sums everything up really nicely. If your husband is anything like mine, then a YouTube clip might get his attention far more than a blog post will.

Have you talked to your husband about getting his PSA checked? Will you?