Andrea Nair: Connect-Four Parenting

Sep
19
2017

Stop Tantrums: 33 Phrases to Use With Toddlers

Quick parenting ideas to improve life with a toddler.

Here are some parenting phrases that can help increase a toddler’s cooperation and reduce tantrums. The delivery of these lines usually goes better with a smile or goofy face.

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Aug
28
2017

8 Strategies to Stop Your "Run Away" Toddler

Have a sprinter? Try these steps.

Do you release your toddler from his car seat, turn to grab the grocery bags, and suddenly see your child darting across the parking lot? This is certainly a heart-pounding challenge that many parents face.

Stopping your young child from running away from you takes coaching, patience, and knowing when your child’s natural desires are taking over his ability to keep himself safe.

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Aug
26
2017

8 Ways to Reduce the Stress of Parenting a Toddler

These concepts are important for parenting little ones

Did you know that the most violent beings on earth are two-year-old children? A parent of one is certainly not shocked to hear this!

While gathering information for articles about toddlers, I have discovered desperate posts like this on the Internet, “Two-year-old for sale. Cheap!”

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Aug
24
2017

5 Ways To Get Through Tough Parenting Moments

Parents, Please Don't Be Discouraged

Raising young children is hard work. We all have days that are harder than others (as do our children). Sometimes the weather keeps us stuck inside, the babies keep crying, and the toddlers keep hitting. Sometimes we're at our parenting best, and sometimes we're not.

Let’s admit that some days raising little ones can be more grueling than rewarding. Did you know that two-year-olds are the most violent beings on Earth? There’s a reason Seinfeld said, “A two-year-old is kind of like having a blender, but you don’t have a top for it.”

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Mar
27
2017

The Four R’s of Correcting A Child

When correction is necessary, here's how to go about it

After reading my Being Mindful Of Your Nice To Nag Ratio post, I heard from K.J. Dell’Antonia at The New York Times Well Family Blog. She wondered, “What do you do when you have to correct a child because it is necessary, as in the case of a special needs or speech issues?” This is a great question!

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Mar
15
2017

Alternative Education Options are On the Rise

New School Models are Putting the Focus on Kids

In the process of considering what is the best way for my own children to learn, I’ve spent time discovering more about what hurts and helps children when they are at school. We are in the midst of exciting times in education where hundred-year-old methods are now being examined with a critical eye. It’s also a time when the level of stress in kids is higher than before. Perhaps the combination of these two things will finally bring about real change in education as a whole.

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Mar
07
2017

I Promise, Parents of Toddlers: You Will Feel Rested Again Someday

People who promised me it would get better were right.

I felt a little guilty yesterday as I rolled through the airport with one small carry-on bag and my purse – and nothing else. I remembered days as a mom of two young kids carrying a stroller and three bags (two crisscrossed over my chest and a backpack overtop that), sweating my way in and out of a bathroom and over to the departure gate - never mind getting myself and the kids through the flight intact!

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Mar
03
2017

Parenting Bravely: How to Increase Our Parenting Confidence

Trust in our parenting abilities helps our families be strong.

One of the most-shared parenting articles last year was the Maclean’s magazine cover article: The Collapse of Parenting: Why it’s time for parents to grow up. I am quoted in this article, although I don’t entirely agree with the way the content was weaved together or presented — I’m more of a fan of titles which help parents feel supported than berated.

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Feb
27
2017

Parenting Mantra: Give Experiences Over Things

Most adults remember moments more than the things they had.

When I think back to all the wonderful Christmases I had with my family, I can’t remember a single present I received. Rather, I recall that my Dad got the BBQ going through science gadgetry when it was -30 degrees for our “surf and turf” meal, that we often sang at the table, and that we jived in the living room after dinner.

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Feb
22
2017

Crocheting and Knitting Are My New Meditation

(And Not As Hard As You Might Think)

Last year during a particularly cold winter day, as I curled up with the afghan my mother had made for me about forty years ago, I had a sudden urge to make a blanket for each of my children.

At the time, the book The Year of Living Danishly was all the rage, which encouraged us to hunker down into blankets and pillows with candles burning nearby. I imagined having an afghan in progress draped over me all winter was a wonderful way to get through another period of cold.

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Feb
13
2017

Helpful Tips for Your Visit to Ste. Anne's Spa

Treat yourself with this great spa experience to recharge your life.

Ste. Anne’s Spa is about ninety minutes east of Toronto along the 401 Highway, situated on 500 acres of beautiful farmland and forested area.

I haven’t had the opportunity to get away for a vacation for quite sometime because of a new business venture, so I decided to visit Ste. Anne’s Spa with my dear friend, Erica Ehm, as a mini-vacation of sorts. 

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Feb
01
2017

Dear Parents of Toddlers, Please Learn from My Regrets

I can't go back in time to change things, but you can learn from what I wish I'd done differently

I remember very clearly the day a neighbour saw me outside with my then three and one-year-olds and remarked, “Wow, I miss those days so much.” I felt like hitting him! That reaction freaked me out and really told me there was something off in my world. I believe I smiled weakly and replied, “Yeah, the hugs are good but I’m sure you don’t miss feeling exhausted All THE TIME.”

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Jan
26
2017

Sleepwalking Tips: How to Help Your Sleepwalking Child

Plus reasons your child may be walking in his or her sleep

We’ve encountered a new situation in our house that has caused me distress and concern: a sleepwalking child.

One night my husband and I were sitting downstairs watching a movie when quietly and suddenly (my children usually walk like elephants) one of my children appeared in the kitchen walking towards us. As he came closer, I could see his eyes were open but were glazed over and distant. We talked to him but he didn’t respond so finally we realized he was sleepwalking.

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Dec
20
2016

Your Baby's Cord Blood Can Save a Life!

Did you know that you can donate your baby’s umbilical and cord placenta for lifesaving medical procedures?

Donating cord blood

This past weekend I visited a student of mine just before she started a bone marrow transplant procedure at SickKids Hospital in Toronto. Her parents were delighted to let me know that they had found a perfect match for her. The donor even had the same blood type so unlike what often happens during these kinds of transplants where the blood type changes; hers will stay the same.

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Six Suggestions for Reducing Mobile Device Radiation | YMCWellness | YummyMummyClub.ca

When my first child arrived, almost ten years ago, I had concerns back then about the effects of radiation emitted from cell phones, wireless devices, and Wi-Fi. I couldn’t find any definitive study results at the time on how radio frequency radiation (RFR) might be having an impact on my body or that of my baby’s, so to be safe, I may have went a bit overboard. I didn’t have Wi-Fi in the house, a cell phone, or anything beyond a lamp and clock plugged into our bedrooms.

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Dec
12
2016

4 Things to Save Your Sanity and Make Parenting Life Easier

The things I've implemented to give me more rest and time

4 Things to Save Your Sanity and Make Your Parenting Life Easier

I used to have the mindset that I couldn’t “afford" the things I knew would be helpful to me. Things that would help me while raising my two small children and getting my new business off the ground. The word “mindset” has been important because it was my thinking that stopped me from getting the help I needed more than my financial situation.

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Dec
06
2016
Grey hair, no more cares

After twenty-five years of colouring my hair, at the age of forty-six, I’m going to stop! The crazy thing is that this decision has been a ridiculously difficult one. I’ve stared at myself in the mirror, sweated, lost sleep, and talked myself in circles about what to do.

I first started thinking about not colouring my hair when my frustration level at keeping it my childhood colour (dark brown) got too time consuming, too expensive, and too logistically tricky.

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Nov
29
2016

The Question Changing How I Respond to My Child's Anger

The answer to this simple question is changing how I support others when they are upset.

Temper tamers for parents

In all these years of studying and writing about tantrums, I admit I was still finding supporting my own children through their big emotions a challenge. I know the scripts, can do the calm-myself-down techniques, and even mostly exercise my own demons, but I was still sometimes flattened by other’s anger outbursts.

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Nov
25
2016

7 Clever Tips to Help Your Kids Have a Positive Relationship with Money

Are You Using This Helpful Language When Talking About Money?

7 Clever Tips to Help Your Kids Have a Positive Relationship with Money

The topic of money is often in the news, but the recent American presidential election has increased the visibility of headlines like: “Is America Divided in to ‘Haves’ and ‘Have-nots’?” Assuming your family is similar to mine, you have likely heard questions like this from the children in your house: “Mom, what’s a ‘Have-not’ – are we poor?”

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Nov
01
2016

Getting Your Family Through the "Dark Days of November"

November can be hard on families. Here's what to do to help everyone...

What to do about seasonal sadness

January has been billed as the “saddest month of the year,” but did you know that November is the one most likely to spark meltdowns, stress-reactions, and freakouts? I call this month the “Dark Days of November.” It’s true! In my line of work, it’s quite common this time of year to hear from parents, students, and teachers who are at the ends of their ropes for many different reasons.

Thankfully we can guide our families through the month of November so everyone comes out the other end reasonably intact.

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